Tommy L. Exley married Bebe Ann Hatcher on April 15, 1960, at Whitefield United Methodist Church in Savannah.

They have a daughter, Cindy Exley Howze, and a son, Tom Exley Jr., and three grandchildren, Ansley, Garrett and Hayden Howze.

To celebrate their anniversary, their will be enjoying a week-long cruise to the Caribbean in June.