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7-year-old faces lengthy brain surgery
Operation to quell Harpers seizures to last six days
06.19 Jacob Harper
Jacob Harper - photo by Photo by Sandi Van Orden

Jacob Harper has a bright smile. At 7 years old he has spent a lot of time with doctors and in the hospital.

Jacob and his parents, Melissa and Mark, are preparing for Jacob to have brain surgery in July and to spend a month after the surgery in Atlanta being monitored.

Jacob started having seizures when he was 3 years old, his mother said.

“At the time because of the slight nature and the way they first began, they weren’t sure that it was actually seizures,” Melissa said. “He wasn’t truly diagnosed until he was 4 with epilepsy.”

In the beginning the medicine seemed to work OK, according to Melissa. Then Jacob had his first grand mal seizure.

“Basically it lasted an extended period of time, and he convulsed like seizures that you see on TV,” his mother said. “When he regained consciousness in the hospital, my mother was there, and he didn’t know who she was. That’s when we realized how bad this was all going to be. General things that he had learned how to do very easily, like writing his name, colors, shapes, numbers, all that had to be retaught to him, and it was exceedingly difficult for him to relearn all of that.”

She said over the next few years he was placed on a variety of medications, and then the medicine quit working.

“He basically began having one seizure after another, and we would have to increase to a point where he would start to show liver and kidney problems, and then we would have to change medicines and go that route again,” Melissa said.

She said at that point they found a neurologist in Atlanta. She said the couple had “exhausted” their search for a specialist in the area capable of handling Jacob’s problems. They now take multiple trips a month to the children’s epilepsy center at the Children’s Hospital of Atlanta.

Jacob’s doctor told his parents about the option of brain surgery even though the surgery is not common for children his age.

“For him, it was a choice of surgery, taking that route, or letting this continue on,” Melissa said. “At that point they could tell that there was significant brain damage caused by the seizures. They can see it on the MRIs.

“Most children do not start having trouble with their bodies metabolizing the medicine until after puberty,” Melissa said. “That’s a common time for epilepsy to begin, or if they’ve already had epilepsy, either it suddenly ends there or it suddenly gets worse. I can’t imagine having it get any worse, and I can’t imagine having to wait until he’s 13 or 14. If we waited to that point, he would be incapacitated.”

She said the doctors began testing Jacob in October to see if he was a good surgical candidate. The doctors have found that his seizures originate in the left frontal and left temporal lobes. The doctors will go in and remove portions of those areas of Jacob’s brain.

“The hope is by doing that he will no longer have seizures,” Melissa said. “He’ll never recover the damaged area of his brain because at his age he should be able to regain function in other areas of the brain to make up for that loss.”

She and Jacob will have to live in Atlanta for a month after the procedure in order for post surgical testing to be performed.

“Of course, all of that is extremely expensive,” Melissa said.

To help defray those costs, a fundraiser is being held Saturday at Rincon First Christian Church from 11 a.m.-3 p.m.

“We’re going to have a barbeque dinner, silent auction, boiled peanuts. It’s just going to be a day of fun and fellowship,” Melissa said. “It’s a good way for everyone to come out and show their support for Jacob before he goes off and has his surgery done.

“It is devastating watching your child deteriorate before your eyes,” she said. “He has a lot of friends his age, and he sees what they are able to do, and he’s not able to do that. It requires a lot of patience. There’s a lot of humility involved too on our part. He’s able to tolerate all this so well. He smiles through it all. Anytime we start to feel kind of bad for ourselves, and ‘oh, how did this happen to us,’ we just take one look at him, and see it’s not bothering him, he’s OK with it.”

Melissa said Jacob is excited about the surgery and he’s actually happy doctors “are going to go in, and as he says, ‘cut his head open and cut out some of his brain.’”

Melissa said Jacob knows the seizures make him different and keep him from being able to do things that his friends are able to do.

“He wants to be a normal child,” she said. “We want above all for him to have a normal life. We want him to be able to accomplish any dream that he has, and that’s why we’re going to take this risk and do the surgery. It is a risk. Any time you talk about going in and doing neurosurgery.”

Mark explained that the surgery is very complicated.

“They are going to remove his skull for five days,” he said. “They are going to take his skull and put it in, I guess a freezer, so his brain will be exposed so the risk of infection is tremendous. It’s a six-day surgery.

“It’s not just a six-hour surgery. It’s about a four-hour surgery to put the grids on. Then he’ll sit for five days with the grids on, and then after that it will be another long surgery  (about an eight-hour operation) to remove the portions of the brain and to put the skull back on, and screw it back down and staple his scalp back.”

Melissa said when the skull is removed, there will be an EEG grid placed directly on Jacob’s brain in order to “pinpoint precisely where his language area is, where his motor function area is, that kind of thing, and that way they’ll know we can only go to this certain point, and we can’t go beyond here.” 

Jacob smiled as he looked at his parents. He said he likes the trips to Atlanta because of the games he gets to play, and he is looking forward to the surgery.

“(It’s going to) help me keep my seizures away,” he said.




Know Your Neighbor: Maci Robinson
Owner, Bloom Dance Company
Know Your Neighbor

(What you won’t find on social media … even if you’re approved as a friend)

  • Born: Savannah, Ga.
  • Status: I’m married to my middle school sweetheart. We’ve been married nine years and together for 18.
  • Alma mater: Savannah College of Art and Design, bachelor’s degree in motion media design (2015).
  • What’s on TV: I love to binge Netflix series … and I also love bad reality TV. Fun fact: I watch “Family Feud” every single night before bed.
  • Most spontaneous thing I’ve ever done: I ran the Philadelphia Half Marathon with absolutely zero training.
  • Favorite dance move to teach: Pirouettes. They’re usually the first difficult turn dancers learn, and I enjoy breaking it down step by step until they finally get that “I nailed it!” moment. I also love a fun, upbeat jazz combo that brings out a dancer’s personality. Give me some sass, stage presence and sharp technique, and I’m in my happy place!
  • What I drive: Range Rover — I’ve got to show up in style.
  • What I’m reading: Honestly, I’d rather scroll on TikTok or Instagram than read. I can’t even remember the last book I read.
  • Favorite movie: “Grease.” The soundtrack is unbeatable, and I love singing along to every song.
  • Something you’d never guess about me: I’m secretly a total night owl and do my best thinking after midnight. But I’m also the napping queen — I love a good nap, even though I rarely have time for them.
  • Actress who would play me in a movie: Reese Witherspoon — she totally matches my vibe.
  • Favorite thing in my closet: My comfy Lululemon leggings, sparkly sneakers that add flair to any outfit, and my collection of designer handbags — a perfect mix of comfort and glam.
  • App I can’t live without (no judgment): Apple Music and the Notes app. It’s the only way I stay organized. My to-do lists are always out of control.
  • Worst habit: Hitting the snooze button too many times. Or showing up five minutes late everywhere I go. Or running my gas tank as low as possible because I hate pumping gas.
  • Funniest thing a student has done in class: After 18 years of teaching dance, there are countless funny moments. Some of my favorites are when little ones dress themselves and show up to class in full costumes or cowgirl boots, or when they casually spill their mom’s biggest secrets mid-stretch, or when they decide to choreograph their own hip-hop routine right in the middle of ballet class. It keeps me laughing and reminds me why I love teaching.
  • Weirdest thing in my fridge: The “Hot Ones Challenge” Apollo Last Dab Hot Sauce — I love my hot sauces.
  • On my office walls: Photos of my pets. I have two pups, Karli and Tux, and one cat, Luna — they are my world.
  • One person I’d love to cook for: My mom. She’s not here anymore, but I know she’d be proud that I got my cooking skills from her — and that her recipes still live on in my kitchen.
  • Go-to comfort food: Vietnamese food, specifically a bowl of pho and, of course, a boba tea.
  • First thing I do in the morning: Grab an iced coffee and cuddle with my pups.
  • Pet I’d have if anything were possible: Definitely a monkey — one that’s cute, cuddly and maybe helps me with chores. Who wouldn’t want a sidekick with personality?
  • Most-used emoji: 💜
  • First job: Instructor’s assistant at a dance studio at age 14.
  • What I like about Effingham County: It feels like home. It’s got those small-town vibes where everyone knows everyone, and no matter how much it grows, it will always be home to me.
  • Snack I can never say no to: Chips and queso. I’m always down for Mexican food.
  • Favorite sports team: Florida Gators. Go Gators!
  • What song always gets me dancing: Britney Spears, of course. I’m a true ’90s/early 2000s girl. Any pop or hip-hop from that era gets me moving instantly.
  • Favorite value in others: Kindness. I believe there are lots of good people in the world, and kindness is what makes them truly stand out.
  • Advice I’d give my teenage self: Enjoy the moments and celebrate your wins. Invest in yourself and your future, and don’t wait — see the world while you can. Life’s about balance, growth and adventure.
  • Talent I’d most like to have: I wish I could sing. Let’s be honest — I’ve got main character energy, just not the vocal range to back it up.
  • Dream date: To come home to a fully packed suitcase and a surprise trip planned. Any destination would be fine with me.
  • Attribute I like best about myself: My patience. I’m one of the most patient people, and I credit that for much of my success as a dance instructor.
  • And least: I’m a perfectionist and an overachiever. I want everything to be perfect, which sometimes makes me indecisive and stressed over little details.
  • Most ridiculous thing I believed as a kid: If you turned the light on in the car while driving at night, the police would pull your parents over and arrest them. 🚨
  • My hero: My husband. He’s my best friend, supports me unconditionally and always inspires me to be my best self.
  • My bucket list: Adventure and love. I want to travel the world, visit every continent and swim in every major body of water. I want to renew my vows with my husband in a beautiful place like Bora Bora or Fiji. And I want to own a big boat we can sleep on to explore different islands together.
  • My motto: Life is short — cherish every moment. Success is earned, not given. Push yourself, stay positive, ride the wave, and good vibes will come back to you.
More Know Your Neighbors:

Maddie Greer: Mars Theater Director

https://www.effinghamherald.net/lifestyle/know-your-neighbor-maddie-greer/


Jackson (Jake) ZeiglerEffingham County Communications Manager
https://www.effinghamherald.net/lifestyle/know-your-neighbor-jackson-jake-zeigler/


Susan Kraut: President and CEO, Effingham County Chamber of Commerce
https://www.effinghamherald.net/lifestyle/know-your-neighbor-susan-kraut/