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Where did she go?
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When Peggy Sue went away, just fell off the face of the earth with no warning or even a holler, we all wondered where she had gone.


She’d been a big deal for so long that her abrupt disappearance from sight was mystifying to say the least and worth a few gossip sessions to say the most. After a while, I just got tired of wondering and tired of asking her whereabouts so I just sat myself down to figure it out.


Not to sound boastful, but I’m pretty sure I’ve got the mystery solved. You’ll understand when I tell you her back story. Peggy Sue was something like six or seven months pregnant with her second when the no-good rascal she had married up and left for parts unknown with a woman well-known for such antics. There’s no denying that Peggy Sue had it rough. She, all “swolled” up with child as her mama liked to say, stood on her feet for long hours at the diner in her little town in rural Kentucky, waiting on both friends and strangers for tips and small wages.


She was a woman to be admired. She worked hard to string ends together for her and the children, and though it was not a leisurely existence, she got by. Barely. Still, she was proud not to have to depend on money from her parents or the government or even the kindly folks at the little Baptist church she attended as regularly as work would permit.


Now, Peggy Sue was a storyteller of the finest proportions. She knew how to lay a story out in a way that was captivating, humorous and touching all at the same time. Though I can’t imagine where she found the time — since she was pretty consumed with finding a way to buy diapers and pay the rent — she wrote a novel. It was a thinly disguised version of the no-good rascal she had married and all the no-good that had come from her association with him. There are those of us who find art in the hurts of the heart. Peggy Sue was cleverly one of those.


One of her customers at the diner knew someone who knew someone who was connected in publishing, so he sent Peggy Sue’s novel off to a big book publisher in New York. She got published. It was a best-seller and soon got snatched up by a movie producer for a nice wad of change. She quit waitressing. Wrote another book. Made more money. One book brought in over three million dollars.


To be honest, some of us (and one of “us” would be me) were simultaneously proud and envious. It looked so easy for her. The writing came easy, the money came easier. Soon life was rolling along and Peggy Sue, who had sworn that no man would come close to her again, got swept off her feet by some dreamy charmer and, suddenly, the girl who once had nothing had everything. They moved off for a bigger town and bought a stunning house with a gated entrance.


For a long time, I’d hear about her through mutual acquaintances in the publishing business but news of her slowly dribbled away. No one knew anything. She quit her agent, quit her publisher and, apparently, quit writing.


“She made a lot of money. Doesn’t need to work,” someone opined.


I don’t think so.  My figuring is this: Peggy Sue is broke because when you’ve had nothing then suddenly you have a bunch of something, money disappears like butter in a hot skillet. Men who marry for money are like women who marry for it — they never stay put when the money runs out.


I suspect her husband quit her and the big house is gone. Triumph, I have learned, turns to tragedy if you don’t watch out.


Ronda Rich is the best-selling author of “There’s A Better Day A-Comin’.” Visit www.rondarich.com to sign up for her weekly newsletter.

Know Your Neighbor: Inside the Life of MLB Champion Josh Reddick
Former Major League Baseball player, 2017 World Series champion
Josh Reddick Know Your Neighbor

(What you won’t find on social media … even if you’re approved as a friend)

  • Born: Savannah
  • Status: Married to wife, Jett; 6-year-old twin boys, Maverick and Ryder
  • Alma mater: South Effingham High School
  • What’s on TV: “NCIS,” “Dragon Ball Z”
  • Most spontaneous thing I’ve ever done: Drove to Nashville at 11 p.m. and got there at 8 a.m.
  • Most memorable home run or play in my career: A 2017 grand slam in my first game at Truist Park in Atlanta. As a Braves fan growing up, that was awesome. Also robbed Hunter Pence of a home run in 2019 in the ninth inning to save the game.
  • What I drive: 2017 Lamborghini Huracán with a Spider-Man wrap; 2024 Ford F-250 Super Duty
  • What I’m reading: Children’s books at night with my boys — mostly “Pokémon” right now.
  • Favorite movie: “The Count of Monte Cristo”
  • Actor who would play me in a movie: Seann William Scott
  • Toughest pitcher I ever faced: Tyler Clippard
  • App I can’t live without (no judgment): Amazon
  • Worst habit: Biting fingernails
  • My walk-up song: “Careless Whisper” by Wham!
  • On my office walls: Baseball memorabilia — my own and autographed items I gathered during my career
  • Favorite go-to comfort food: Grilled cheese
  • First thing I do in the morning: Brush my teeth
  • Pet I’d have if anything was possible: Penguin
  • Favorite MLB stadium: For the experience, Yankee Stadium; performance-based, Camden Yards in Baltimore
  • Most used emoji: 🤣
  • First job: Worked with my dad installing irrigation systems, landscaping, and mowing lawns
  • What I like about Effingham County: It’s my roots and where it all began for me. The people I’ve known and grew up with are a big part of me.
  • Snack I can never say no to: Chocolate or boiled peanuts
  • Favorite sports team: How ’bout them Dawgs?!
  • What song always gets me dancing (or singing): “Sunflower” by Post Malone and Swae Lee
  • Favorite value in others: Being genuine
  • Advice I’d give my teenage self: Ignore the haters. Don’t let them affect you in any way.
  • Talent I’d most like to have: Speak multiple languages
  • Dream date: Ruth’s Chris Steak House and then Topgolf — that’s our usual date night, and I love it.
  • Most ridiculous thing I believed as a kid: That I had to wait 30 minutes after eating to swim
  • Attribute I like best about myself: I tell it like it is.
  • And least: I speak when I sometimes shouldn’t.
  • My hero: Ken Griffey Jr.
  • My bucket list: Explore Alaska
  • My motto: “How can you hit the ball thinking of all the possible ways you can miss.”