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Dear Cameron:


You have been in this world for a tad over five years. I think you would agree it has been a pretty good ride to this point. A lot of people love you and care deeply about you. When you are older, you will understand just how fortunate you are.


You have brought a lot to the party yourself. When you showed up at my door at Christmas with a plate of cookies you had baked for me after having viewed a grocery commercial that featured a little girl making cookies for her grandfather, you gave me the greatest gift I have received since you first arrived on the planet. I don’t believe you did that because you thought you would get something in return. I believe you did it because you love me. Here you are, younger than most of my dress shirts and you have already figured out the power of love. May I never forget what you taught me that day.


I wish life could stay this simple for you but, alas, it doesn’t work that way. As you get older, you will find yourself in a world where people don’t have the same value system as has been instilled in you. There will be a lot of peer pressure for you to change and to be like them. Go along and get along. Don’t do it. Be brave enough to be yourself but don’t act like you are superior to others. Let your confidence show through quietly.


Admittedly, I am biased but I see enormous potential in you. How close you come to reaching that potential is strictly up to you. No one can achieve your dreams for you. Only you can do that. You can be anything you choose to be. Presidents of the United States don’t just fall out of the sky. Neither do scientists, artists, inventors or athletes. Successful people got where they are because they refused to get discouraged when things got tough. And things will get tough. That is just how life is. It knocks a lot of people down who don’t have the grit to get back up.


Read everything you can get your hands on about successful people. You will discover they had some luck along the way but it seems the harder they worked, the luckier they got. Let their stories inspire you to greatness.


Whatever you do: Aim high. To me, the saddest souls are those who weren’t willing to take chances or run risks; who worried about what other people might think of them and their dreams; who didn’t have the courage to get into the arena and fight for what they believed in, or were just too lazy to make the effort. As a result, they are doomed to spend the rest of their lives wondering “what if” or “what I could have been” and denigrating the success of others. I would suffocate in that kind of environment. I hope you will feel the same way.


Lest I give you the impression that success is about fame and power and running roughshod over people to reach your goals, let me hasten to add that nothing could be further from the truth. Success is doing something worthwhile, doing it to the best of your abilities, being happy as you do it and making this a better world because you were here.


Never, ever settle for less than the best from yourself whether it be school work (especially school work!), playing sports, keeping your room clean, being a good son and grandson or solving a puzzle.  Never rationalize poor effort.


Remember that each day is a precious gift. Make every minute count. There are no guarantees you will get a do-over tomorrow. Develop a deep faith in God. Be the kind of person that everyone wants as their friend. Have a positive attitude and don’t be a whiner. Nobody likes a whiner. And don’t be boastful. Nobody likes a braggart, either.


I wish I could be around long enough to see how you turn out but my race is almost run. I have every confidence that you will do fine. I just hope you have as much fun in your life as I have had in mine. I didn’t always get it right but I gave it my best shot. That is all I ask of you. Happy New Year and, again, thanks for the cookies.


Love,
PA


You can reach Dick Yarbrough at yarb2400@bellsouth.net; at P.O. Box 725373, Atlanta, GA 31139; online at dickyarbrough.com or on Facebook at www.facebook.com/dickyarb.

In Effingham County, Progress Starts With a Plan
Guest Editorial by Susan Kraut, President/CEO of Effingham County Chamber of Commerce
Susan Kraut column
A sold-out crowd of more than 150 business and community leaders gathered at Effingham’s New Ebenezer Retreat Center Sept. 24 for the Chamber of Commerce’s annual State of the County Luncheon, hearing updates on economic growth, education, and infrastructure across Effingham County. (Submitted photo)

At last Wednesday’s sold-out State of the County luncheon, more than 150 business and community leaders heard a message that resonated throughout the program: We have a plan, and we’re sticking to it.

Effingham County City Manager Tim Callanan opened his remarks with that thought. It was simple, but powerful. In an era when news feeds churn with controversy and change, it served as a reminder that behind the scenes, steady planning is happening – and those plans are beginning to bear fruit.

Businesses and residents often express frustration about roads, zoning, parks, schools or economic development, feeling that growth is outpacing action. The truth, as Callanan underscored, is that many of those actions are already underway, rooted in master plans that cover everything from transportation and stormwater to parks, communications and public safety.

The challenge is that plans only matter if people know they exist. Too often, businesses and citizens forget these plans are in place, don’t know where to find them or don’t realize how to weigh in at the right moments. When that happens, the community loses the chance to shape its own future and to express the value of those plans – why they matter and why they’re worth supporting.

Planning delivers progress

Last week’s luncheon highlighted how “plans” translate into progress. Mayor Kevin Exley shared Rincon’s ranking as one of Georgia’s safest cities and the city’s launch of the Citizen Central app – a small but meaningful step toward accessible local government. Springfield’s new city manager, Lauren Eargle, outlined a capital improvement plan that includes sidewalks, drainage and playgrounds, along with the less glamorous but vital work of a $35 million wastewater plant upgrade. Guyton’s city manager, Bill Lindsey, discussed contracting with planning consultants, winning grants for sidewalks, and reinvesting in Bazemore Park and downtown revitalization. These aren’t random acts; they’re evidence of intentional planning.

The school district provided another example when Superintendent Yancy Ford noted that Effingham now serves nearly 14,500 students speaking 33 languages. That diversity is an asset – but it also requires careful, proactive investment to maintain the high standards families expect. His most powerful point concerned ESPLOST, the 1-cent Education Special Purpose Local Option Sales Tax. Thanks to community support over the years, ESPLOST has built classrooms, purchased buses, enhanced safety measures, provided Chromebooks to all students, added security cameras and access-control systems, created inclusive playgrounds and athletic facilities open to the community, supported hands-on learning spaces like Honey Ridge, and established the College & Career Academy – a facility credited by Ford as helping lift the district’s graduation rate above 90% and expanding career pathways for a rapidly diversifying student body. And it has done so without incurring long-term debt.

Why ESPLOST matters

Among these examples of planning, none is clearer than ESPLOST — a long-term, voter-approved blueprint for funding education, renewed every five years to stay ahead of growth. The November ballot will again include the ESPLOST renewal, giving voters the opportunity to continue this proven approach to funding school facilities, technology, safety, transportation, inclusive playgrounds and community-accessible athletic fields. Renewing ESPLOST does not create a new tax; it simply extends the existing 1-cent sales tax, allowing residents, visitors and businesses to contribute to improvements that benefit every student. Without it, many of the projects parents and community members count on – such as new buses, safer schools, modern classrooms, career pathways and accessible playgrounds – would stall or require long-term debt.

Renewing ESPLOST is about more than bricks and mortar. It is not a reactionary measure but part of an intentional, ongoing plan to manage growth and maintain education – reinforcing the theme that plans become progress. As the district’s population becomes increasingly diverse and enrollment continues to rise, sustained ESPLOST funding is crucial to scaling programs, expanding facilities and maintaining the high graduation rates and opportunities that families expect. It is about protecting Effingham County’s tradition of educational excellence, maintaining property values and ensuring the workforce being prepared in our schools is ready to meet the needs of local employers. It is an investment in students, families and the future of our communities.

A call to the community

Effingham County is growing. Growth brings challenges, but it also brings opportunities. As the luncheon demonstrated, leaders at every level are working to guide that growth thoughtfully. The next step belongs to business owners, parents and neighbors – to lean in, stay informed and participate.

When hearing about a master plan, a referendum or a public meeting, don’t assume it is someone else’s job. Look up the plan, attend the forum, ask questions and cast a vote. That is how plans become progress – and how a yes vote on ESPLOST reaffirms and continues the community’s long-term plan for educational excellence, reinvesting in Effingham County’s future.