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Wherefore art thou, Romeo?
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I’ve never been one to be all into romance or anything, which is probably why I ended up marrying Hubs.

With Valentine’s Day looming just around the corner, everyone asks what he’s going to get me for Valentine’s Day.

That day also happens to be our anniversary.

Why?

’Cause he said it was the only way he’d remember what day our anniversary fell on.

I usually get him the same thing every year, because I know it’s exactly what he wants. A box of See’s candies and/or a big bag of Lindt chocolates. I can make one Lindt chocolate last a week, Hubs tosses them in his mouth like they’re popcorn.

They are so chocolatey and sweet, I don’t know how he does it.

He is not picky about the flavor, either.

It could miss his mouth and roll under the couch, picking up dust bunnies and cobwebs, and he wouldn’t give it a second thought.

Pop! Goes the weasel, right down his gullet.

Some people are not into dark chocolate, some folks do not dig on milk chocolate. Or flavored chocolate. Or filled chocolate.

Hubs is non-discriminatory.

Any flavor, any filling will do.

As far as his gifts for me, I have just learned to shrug it off.

I don’t get excited about it, I don’t have to think too hard about it, I just try to ignore it all together.

I am not a sentimental old fool, nor do I go ga-ga over mushy cards.

I prefer a card that makes me laugh, especially if it’s a bit sick or twisted.

So.

What is Hubs gonna get me for Valentine’s Day ... or rather, our anniversary...?

Let me see....

Well, it could be any number of things because I just never really know where his mind is on that particular day.

One year I got a box of hair coloring and some hair gel.

Hint. Hint.

Another year he bought me a new dish drainer (the plastic kind) from The Dollar Tree. He also got me a coffee mug, a bag of cookies from Czechoslovakia, and a Jumbo Crossword Puzzle book.

Hmmm ... what else ....

One year he got me a T-shirt. It had something to do with Harley Davidson, but did not say “Genuine Harley Jugs” on it, fortunately.

I still have no idea where he got it, probably down at the Goodwill store. Not that there is anything wrong with that but, I mean, come on. We are talkin’ Hubs here.

He did buy me a box of candy one year.

Another “not sure where it came from” story.

Dark chocolate orange jelly-filled sticks.

Two of my least favorite flavors when it comes to chocolate.

I took the top off the box, put the box on the coffee table, and threw the empty box away an hour later after The Kid and Hubs had polished them off.

I do not even have to yell, “Heeeeere boy! Come on! Heeeeeere boy!” — if it’s out, it’s gone.

One year he gave me his credit card and said, “Go buy yourself a nice outfit.”

I looked at the credit card, then back at him.

“K-mart or Walmart?” I asked.

“No, this time you can go to Dress Barn or Macy’s ... whatever you find.”

It was a rare treat at that time, and of course, it was early in the marriage.

I got two nice outfits, both on sale, and was able to wear them about three times each.

Hey, I lived in the backwoods in the middle of nowhere, so I didn’t have much occasion to wear them. I have photos of me in them to remember them by.

Last year, if I remember correctly, I got flowers.

He and the gal at the grocery store had to cobble something together out of what she had left in her flower bins, but they lasted about two weeks, so it was a nice change.

One year we went to a motorcycle ride-in.

That was not for me, of course, but for him. I just played along.

Hubs doesn’t have a motorcycle, but he has some seriously awful motorcycle apparel. I don’t know why, he just thinks the fringed black leather vest makes him look cool. And it probably did at one time, for about an hour.

It’s now in a box with the black suit he wore when he was 20 that he refuses to part with.

“I might be able to wear it again someday...!”

“Yes. You might. I’ll lay it on top of your dead body in the casket. No one will ever know.”

I did ask, once, to be taken out to breakfast as an anniversary treat.

I knew right where I wanted to go, even if it was 10 miles away.

We got to the restaurant and I was happy as a clam to not be the one cookin’ up vittles that morning.

Service was slow, the waitress ignored us because we were over the age of 25, and Hubs grumbled the entire time we were there.

He kept looking at his watch and threatening to leave if we didn’t get served right quick.

It was not a pleasant experience, even after our food came.

We’ve since had to cross it off our list.

We’re now down to McDonald’s and Hardee’s.

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So! What is momma gonna get for Valentine’s Day/Anniversary this year?

It doesn’t really matter, because it will probably come from the Mexican 99-cent store down the street.

If it’s a pinata, I’ll be happy.

I’ll get to beat on it till something good comes out of it.

In Effingham County, Progress Starts With a Plan
Guest Editorial by Susan Kraut, President/CEO of Effingham County Chamber of Commerce
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A sold-out crowd of more than 150 business and community leaders gathered at Effingham’s New Ebenezer Retreat Center Sept. 24 for the Chamber of Commerce’s annual State of the County Luncheon, hearing updates on economic growth, education, and infrastructure across Effingham County. (Submitted photo)

At last Wednesday’s sold-out State of the County luncheon, more than 150 business and community leaders heard a message that resonated throughout the program: We have a plan, and we’re sticking to it.

Effingham County City Manager Tim Callanan opened his remarks with that thought. It was simple, but powerful. In an era when news feeds churn with controversy and change, it served as a reminder that behind the scenes, steady planning is happening – and those plans are beginning to bear fruit.

Businesses and residents often express frustration about roads, zoning, parks, schools or economic development, feeling that growth is outpacing action. The truth, as Callanan underscored, is that many of those actions are already underway, rooted in master plans that cover everything from transportation and stormwater to parks, communications and public safety.

The challenge is that plans only matter if people know they exist. Too often, businesses and citizens forget these plans are in place, don’t know where to find them or don’t realize how to weigh in at the right moments. When that happens, the community loses the chance to shape its own future and to express the value of those plans – why they matter and why they’re worth supporting.

Planning delivers progress

Last week’s luncheon highlighted how “plans” translate into progress. Mayor Kevin Exley shared Rincon’s ranking as one of Georgia’s safest cities and the city’s launch of the Citizen Central app – a small but meaningful step toward accessible local government. Springfield’s new city manager, Lauren Eargle, outlined a capital improvement plan that includes sidewalks, drainage and playgrounds, along with the less glamorous but vital work of a $35 million wastewater plant upgrade. Guyton’s city manager, Bill Lindsey, discussed contracting with planning consultants, winning grants for sidewalks, and reinvesting in Bazemore Park and downtown revitalization. These aren’t random acts; they’re evidence of intentional planning.

The school district provided another example when Superintendent Yancy Ford noted that Effingham now serves nearly 14,500 students speaking 33 languages. That diversity is an asset – but it also requires careful, proactive investment to maintain the high standards families expect. His most powerful point concerned ESPLOST, the 1-cent Education Special Purpose Local Option Sales Tax. Thanks to community support over the years, ESPLOST has built classrooms, purchased buses, enhanced safety measures, provided Chromebooks to all students, added security cameras and access-control systems, created inclusive playgrounds and athletic facilities open to the community, supported hands-on learning spaces like Honey Ridge, and established the College & Career Academy – a facility credited by Ford as helping lift the district’s graduation rate above 90% and expanding career pathways for a rapidly diversifying student body. And it has done so without incurring long-term debt.

Why ESPLOST matters

Among these examples of planning, none is clearer than ESPLOST — a long-term, voter-approved blueprint for funding education, renewed every five years to stay ahead of growth. The November ballot will again include the ESPLOST renewal, giving voters the opportunity to continue this proven approach to funding school facilities, technology, safety, transportation, inclusive playgrounds and community-accessible athletic fields. Renewing ESPLOST does not create a new tax; it simply extends the existing 1-cent sales tax, allowing residents, visitors and businesses to contribute to improvements that benefit every student. Without it, many of the projects parents and community members count on – such as new buses, safer schools, modern classrooms, career pathways and accessible playgrounds – would stall or require long-term debt.

Renewing ESPLOST is about more than bricks and mortar. It is not a reactionary measure but part of an intentional, ongoing plan to manage growth and maintain education – reinforcing the theme that plans become progress. As the district’s population becomes increasingly diverse and enrollment continues to rise, sustained ESPLOST funding is crucial to scaling programs, expanding facilities and maintaining the high graduation rates and opportunities that families expect. It is about protecting Effingham County’s tradition of educational excellence, maintaining property values and ensuring the workforce being prepared in our schools is ready to meet the needs of local employers. It is an investment in students, families and the future of our communities.

A call to the community

Effingham County is growing. Growth brings challenges, but it also brings opportunities. As the luncheon demonstrated, leaders at every level are working to guide that growth thoughtfully. The next step belongs to business owners, parents and neighbors – to lean in, stay informed and participate.

When hearing about a master plan, a referendum or a public meeting, don’t assume it is someone else’s job. Look up the plan, attend the forum, ask questions and cast a vote. That is how plans become progress – and how a yes vote on ESPLOST reaffirms and continues the community’s long-term plan for educational excellence, reinvesting in Effingham County’s future.